For generations, LGBTQ+ individuals have served their countries with valor and distinction, often in the shadows, forced to conceal their true identities. But the tide is turning. As societies evolve, so too do military institutions, increasingly recognizing the strength and effectiveness that diversity brings. This is the story of brave LGBTQ+ service members, past and present, who fought not only for their nations but for their right to serve openly and authentically.
Let's journey back in time and salute some of the trailblazers who defied societal norms and contributed significantly to military history:
Did you know that one of the key figures in the American Revolutionary War may have been gay? Friedrich von Steuben, a Prussian military officer, joined the Continental Army and is credited with transforming it into a disciplined fighting force. While historical accounts vary, rumors persisted about von Steuben's sexuality. Facing potential prosecution in Europe, he accepted an offer to assist the American colonies. Regardless of the truth, von Steuben's contributions were undeniable. He bequeathed his estate to his young aides, and today, his name graces a town, a warship, a submarine, and an ocean liner - lasting tributes to his service. Was his personal life a secret? Perhaps. But his military impact is undeniable.
Frank Kameny's story is a powerful example of injustice and resilience. A Harvard-educated astronomer, Kameny was fired from his government job for being gay. Rather than succumb to despair, he became a relentless activist, fighting against discrimination and for LGBTQ+ rights. He took his case all the way to the Supreme Court, marking the first time the court considered a civil rights case based on sexual orientation. Though he died not long after, his unrelenting spirit paved the way for future generations.
In the 1950s, U.S. Air Force reservist Miriam Clackum faced accusations of being a lesbian. Instead of resigning, she bravely demanded a court-martial. Though ultimately dishonorably discharged, her refusal to back down was a powerful act of defiance against the discriminatory policies of the time.
Many know Harvey Milk for his groundbreaking political career and tragic assassination. But before becoming a champion for gay rights, Milk served in the U.S. Navy during the Korean War. His abrupt dismissal from the Navy due to his sexuality fueled his activism, leading him to San Francisco's Castro Street, where he became a pioneering figure in the LGBTQ+ rights movement. The recent launch of a Navy ship named after Milk is a testament to how far we've come in recognizing the contributions of LGBTQ+ individuals.
The fight for equality continues, and these modern-day heroes are leading the charge:
Bree Fram is an active-duty astronautical engineer with the U.S. Space Force. Her coming out coincided with the lifting of the ban on transgender service members. Fram's story highlights the emotional rollercoaster of progress and setbacks, but she remained committed to serving her country with authenticity.
Tammy Smith made history when she became the first openly gay general in the U.S. Army. Her promotion was a watershed moment, demonstrating that sexual orientation should not be a barrier to advancement in the military.
Across the Atlantic, Maj. Gen. Bruce of the British Army made headlines by marrying his partner of 20 years in full military uniform. After years of hiding his relationship, he chose to celebrate his love and service to his country with pride. His wedding was a powerful statement about acceptance and inclusion.
The answer is simple: an inclusive military is a stronger military. When individuals can serve openly and authentically, they are more focused, more dedicated, and more effective. Forcing people to hide their identities creates stress, undermines morale, and ultimately weakens the entire force. As Gen. Bruce poignantly put it, the only thing that should matter is whether someone is capable of delivering "calculated, precise, and legal violence against the Queen's enemies when the nation demands it." Anything else is irrelevant.
While significant progress has been made, the journey toward full equality for LGBTQ+ service members is far from over. Discrimination still exists, and vigilance is needed to ensure that all service members are treated with respect and dignity. By celebrating the achievements of LGBTQ+ military heroes, we honor their service and reaffirm our commitment to building a more inclusive and just military for all.
What does the future hold? Hopefully a time when a soldier's or officer's sexual orientation is about as relevant as their favorite ice cream flavor. A time when service, dedication, and ability are the only metrics that matter.